Hey there peeps!!! What's up??? Yes, that's right, I"M MOVING!
This will be a life changing move. I am moving to Rocky Mount, Virginia.
My mother lives there, as well as both my brothers. My sister still lives here, in Ohio, but since she cut off communication with me, and the family, there is really nothing left for me here. Granted my boyfriend's family still lives here, he is willing to pick up, and move with me. Lucky for me, Jeff already knows most of my family, so it won't be so strange for everyone. His mother is the depressive clingy type, who always relies on Jeff for mostly everything. She is upset that he is going, and tries to find excuses for him to stay longer. We were orginally suppose to leave on May 19th, but since his parents are taking a weekend vacation, to Michigan, they have asked, if we would stay until May 20th or 21st, so his parents can say Good-Bye! For those of you that does not know the story I will now tell you.........
Jeff and I were married, from January 1996, to July 1998. But in May of 1997, we were living with his parents for a while now, anyways in May of 97, I started hanging around an old male friend, I would meet him at his house, down the street, and we would have a couple drinks, and bullshit. Never any SEX!!!!
Anyways, on Jeff's mother's birthday, she decides she is going to kick me out.. Jeff's mom never liked me from 1993, when we went to Virginia to start a life down there then, but as I said before, his mom was too damn clingy, and since Jeff and I were not married then, she did not feel that he was obligated to stay there, with me.... So between 1993-1997, Jeff and I had to deal with his mom, but we finally made it to the altar, at the time, his mom thought we did it for spite. But we were in love then, and apparently still are.Anyways when I was hanging around this male friend, Jeff's mom was not too pleased, so out I went, and where was Jeff? Hiding out in the basement, letting her kick me out, So I called my male friend, who came and got me. Instead of Jeff fighting for me to stay, he helped me pack up my friend's car. So I took off and started a life with this male friend. After Jeff and I were finally divorced, This friend and I were married. We were together for 8 years, and the last 2 years, we have lived apart. Anyways while I was with my new husband, Jeff did a google search for supposedly, the whole 9 years we were apart, he searched for me. He found me in April of 2005, my new husband and I were already having problems, and Jeff told me his feelings for me, and I told him my feeling for my new husband, and my feelings for him. It's apparent that Jeff won my heart, but he really didn't have to fight too hard, because he always had my heart.
But if only the world knew the shit Jeff and I deal with, when it comes to his mother, people wouldn't blame us for leaving. Jeff's younger sister Katie is stuck here for at least another year and a half. She is upset as well, at her brother's big move. She has grown up with him in her life, and now he's leaving. I know it must be hard on her, but she has asked if she can move down with us when she does move, but that would be all up to her and her other half. I do not wish to seperate Jeff from his family at all, and I know we will more than likely come back to visit, next year.
Folks, I'm not a home wreacker, and I do believe in family. Family needs to be together, and be there for each other. It pains me, to hear that Jeff wants to get away from his family, because of the way they treat him. He needs peace of mind. He also says that his feels that if he does leave his father will take on more responciblity and be the husband he should be, and maybe his mother's knee operation would heal much better, if she started doing stuff for herself, and Jeff feels that with him here, neither parent will fend for themselves. So Jeff gone, who will help them out? Themselves!!!!! And Jeff will finally have a life of his own....
So now anyways, we are leaving on May 21st. But if the parents come home from their trip early, we may leave on the 20th. I will still want you all too write to me. Thank Goodness for Technology.
Well peeps, if you want to comment GO FOR IT !!!!!!
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